Becoming a mother has changed everything in me. My lifestyle, my behavior, my attitude towards life, all have undergone a drastic change. Now my life revolves around my daughters, all else is secondary. Whatever I do, I first think how my kids will react to it. All my decisions and choices are now governed by what suits my daughters best. I have become much more mature and calm as a person and can handle situations in a much more level-headed way than before.
Especially my little second child who is just 13 months old has taught me to be more patience, more cheerful and to think before I act. I still remember and will never forget this incident which turned me to be good mother, my little one was just 15 days and she used to keep me awake every night…
That particular midnight she got up and my sleep was disturbed my mom was fast asleep and since she worked whole day I didn’t wanted to disturb her, so I started rocking my baby to see if she falls asleep, but that didn’t work. Then I took her on my lap and suddenly tears rolled down and I talked to her that she has disturbed my sleep since she is born and how depressed I am feeling. Suddenly her eyes started speaking as if she is telling me that mom give me some time and all will be well. I need you to take care of me, love me and your time is special for me. Soon I will grow up and this time is going to waive off fast. From that day onward I never cribbed about anything. Every night I used to be there for her, to see that smile. She made me more stronger and to believe that if mother understand the need of baby. Baby becomes cheerful and happy child. That is what she has turned into. I know when she wants to eat, sleep, play and many more.
Salute to the Motherhood and loads of love to my cuties! Can’t think anything beyond them.